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Happy New Years my LOVES!! Here’s to many more limp wrists in 2023! When I saw this photo only a week ago, little did I know what kind of impact it would have on me…it reminded me that I have, in fact, arrived at a place in my life where I am no longer holding any part of myself in order to fit in, or “make sense” to anyone else! I used to be so scared to let go and just let my wrists, legs, voice, eyes (where one looks says a lot about them), and heart be free to embrace the deepest parts of myself. This photo, so beautifully created by @edmundliang_design is a love letter to that little boy, who around the age of 5 started to make adjustments, edits, changes, and calculations, all in hopes of fitting in, being “normal,” and hiding a side of me that I thought would ruin everything. Being Gay & Queer! Today, 29 years later, I proudly hold my wrists, legs, voice, body, mind and spirit any way I want to, and it feels fcking amazing to time travel back to that little boy through this photo, and say…we made it! There so much more to come, but for now, I just wanted you to know, that we’ve arrived!! In many ways it feeling like a homecoming, from me in the future to him in the past… just so say, you can be yourself again, it’s safe, and it’s time! What’s meant for you will never pass you by my darling;) wait till you see what coming next…to be continued…2023, here we come!!
